Putting it out there to my readers
Happy Friday, everyone. 🙂
As I slowly but surely approach 500 posts here on Blogger (I’m at 478 now), I’m pondering about this blog and its purpose. So I thought I’d open the floor to readers and get some feedback. My blog hits have been low lately. Perhaps it’s not just me (naturally, I think everything is about me!), but I do fret about these things.
The title says it all: This blog is about my life, my loves and my spankings, with the emphasis on the latter. If I wanted to write more about vanilla stuff, I’d write a vanilla blog. However, I wonder sometimes if I’ve covered everything there is to be said about my spanking life.
Yes, I continue to post of my weekly adventures, now with a new partner. But other than that? Between years and years of posting blogs (and posting on forums before that) and two books, I’ve related one hell of a lot of experiences, fantasies and not-so-humble opinions.
One of my biggest peeves on FetLife of late is the redundancy, the posting and discussing of the same freaking topics over and over and OVER. Even though the most popular topics are kept at the top of the thread as “stickies,” people don’t bother looking at those. Just last week, someone posted the “Does size matter?” question for the umpteenth time, and I lost it, commenting, “For the love of God, not this again! Read the @#$%ing stickies before you ask a question that’s already been asked a million times.” Amazingly, no one flamed me for that. The moderator ended up closing the thread. Perhaps he/she agreed with me. But I digress. My point is, I don’t wish to become redundant. I don’t want to repeat myself, tell the same damn stories over and over and bore people.
I used to post my Correspondence Hall of Shame regularly, which was a lot of fun. But I get less material for that these days. I used to post of wonderful shooting adventures, but sadly, those seem to have come to an end. Yes, I miss posting as a “spanking model.” My 15 minutes went on to last 12 years and I am so grateful for that, but I’m sad as well. I post thorough party reports, but those are few and far between. My local spanking scene is woefully inadequate and we cannot afford to travel to all the good parties.
Please don’t misunderstand me; I love blogging. I don’t want to dwindle off or cease writing this blog; it’s dear to me. However, I’m not sure what to blog about anymore. I’m struggling to find subjects. There are only so many parodies, so many spoofs, so many reviews, so many observations. What is it I can say that you haven’t already heard? I want to keep things fresh. I don’t want to be a relic, like the old actress in that Twilight Zone episode who holes up in her house and watches her young self in her films from years ago, living and reliving the past.
So here’s where you guys can help me out. Is there anything you’d like for me to cover here, that I haven’t already? Should I continue this blog as it is, with the sharing of play dates interspersed with life stuff? Or is there an unexplored direction that might be worth peeking into?
Just my thoughts on a semi-cool, cloudy Friday afternoon. Here I thought fall was finally here — no such luck. By Sunday, it’s going to be back up in the @#$%ing 90s here, and will stay that way all next week! BLECCCHHH!!
Yeah, I know. Bitch, bitch, bitch. That’s one thing that will never change. 🙂
Have a great weekend, y’all.