Come on, caveman…
Spank me, hold me down, fist my hair. Show me your power.
I am in a Mood today. Not sure why; maybe because I am missing my weekly spanking fix with Steve, or because I’m getting excited about Shadow Lane, or because I’m working on something unbearably dull and my mind is wandering. But today, I’m pondering about how, sometimes, I like it just a little rough.
Specifically? I love the hair grab. There’s just something so damn raw and primal about it.
I know I’ve talked about this before, but once again, I need to be clear — I’m not talking about the hair pull. The kind that really hurts, where the hair feels like it’s being yanked out. I still remember one woman from years ago, who had been abused in past relationships, telling me that she wore her hair in a pixie cut because she got tired of “having her hair used as a weapon.” That made me shudder. No, I’m not talking about that.
I’m talking about when the man buries his hand in my hair, as if to caress it, and then tightens his fist around it. Just enough to catch my attention. Just enough to sting a little, but not horribly so. A hurts-so-good sting.
And when it’s combined with spanking, oh my gawd.
Not sure where this photo is from; I got it off a Google search. But yeah, I like this. A lot.
A spanker who does this commands my attention. Granted, I do not want a stranger doing it. But when it comes from a trusted top, one who normally has a gentle and kind nature, this bit of caveman tactic really stops me in my tracks.
Keep still and be quiet, Erica. I’m in charge here.
This is an oldie, but every time I look at it, I remember how much I loved playing and working with Steve Fuller. Yet another person I miss! (From Shadow Lane’s The Spanking Professor.)
Does this resonate with any of you, readers? Sometimes, it’s the toughness during the scene that makes the tenderness afterward so very sweet.
Just a little something dancing through my mind on a Wednesday, while struggling to proofread a manual on research methods. Oh yeah, I can really go concentrate on that now…