Erica Scott: Life, Love and Spanking

Ruminations, opinionated observations, darkly humorous blathering and the occasional rant from an outspoken spanko and unapologetic attention wh–, um, hog.

Been a while…

Almost two months, to be exact. So what’s been going on? In the past couple of months, John and I celebrated our 25th anniversary together, and I had another birthday. The latter was last week and there were many fun treats and surprises. If I tried to list everything I received, I’d probably forget someone or something and cause hurt feelings, so I’ll just say I loved everything!

Oh, and the wonderful Dave Wolfe immortalized me yet again in another birthday toon! I love these so much. And love you, Wolfie!!

I mentioned this on his blog, but I really do appreciate the chesticular enhancements he gave me.

In non-birthday present news, a friend on Twitter sent me (gulp) a personalized clothes brush. You know, like a hairbrush, but bigger and heavier?

I was very tickled and touched by this, but ya know, I need to be careful who I allow to handle this. Clothes brushes are mean little mofos! The last time I had an encounter with one, I ended up like this:

Ow. The same gentleman also sent me a DVD he’d burned for me with several hours of Beatles footage, including “Yellow Submarine” (which I haven’t seen since I was a kid) and the wonderful documentary “The Compleat Beatles” (which I haven’t seen since I had it on VHS in the 80s). How cool is that?

Back to the birthday — okay, so I got flowers and chocolates and cake and bubble bath and jigsaw puzzles and coffee cups and facial mask and candles and a UPS (Uninterruptible Power Supply) and and and and… but no spanking. (sigh) However! That is going to be rectified, belatedly. My friend C from Oregon is coming for another visit! I will be seeing him Monday morning. Squeeee! He has promised to make this one “challenging” (what, the last one wasn’t??), and said I should get as much work done as possible this week because next week I won’t feel like sitting. Oy… I’m screwed. And I love it. Can’t wait.

Stay tuned for a play report next week!

In other news, I have deactivated from FetLife, for personal reasons. That cuts out yet another connection to our community — but right now, the spanking community is so fractured, I wonder if it will ever be whole again. (sigh) I wish I had a local posse like I used to… and ways to connect with them without having to wade through the cesspool that is I met with a man from there last week; he was nice enough, but a total mismatch. I have made it crystal clear that I am a spanking fetishist, that this isn’t about sex for me, and that I seek men who feel the same way and would enjoy a spanking scene as much as I do. This guy? All about sex. But “open-minded” and willing to learn to do something if it turned me on. (sigh again) Guys… that’s not the same thing. I appreciate the thought, but it’s absolutely not the same. I don’t want you to play with me because that’s what I like, and meanwhile, you’re fantasizing about post-spanking blowjob. Also, at this stage in my life, I really don’t want to play teacher. I want to be able to relax into a session and know I’m in experienced and good hands.

Where are the spankos? I know you’re out there, dammit!! I am here waiting for you…

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11 thoughts on “Been a while…

  1. Oh, we definitely want to hear about the clothes brush tickling and touching!! But won’t it imprint your name backwards! But then, “ttocS acirE” would read correctly in the mirror. “Behind In The Looking Glass” by Shrew’s Peril.

    And I’m happy to hear that you made out like a bandit on your birthday! Tokens to remind you how much we all love and appreciate you!!

    The cartoon and the List of Kinky Things were a lot of fun to do, anticipating your reaction! In fact, your joy put me over the moon! (As shown, Har!)

    I peeked in on FetLife once, years ago, and even then, the atmosphere didn’t seem like much I would have enjoyed. Maybe something better will turn up for you, and everyone!

    Meanwhile, lots more joy and love!!


  2. Jenny Bell on said:

    Hi! Erica, I’m glad you had a nice birthday, was that a spelling mistake with compleat Beatles instead of complete, or is it their funny idea? Hopefully things will be more normal for everyone soon, stay well and happy. Aussie Jenny.

    On Thu, Sep 30, 2021 at 6:54 AM Erica Scott: Life, Love and Spanking wrote:

    > Erica Scott posted: ” Almost two months, to be exact. So what’s been going > on? In the past couple of months, John and I celebrated our 25th > anniversary together, and I had another birthday. The latter was last week > and there were many fun treats and surprises. If I tried to l” >


  3. Happy B’day. Unfortunately this spanko is on the East Coast, but a huge fan of yours. Yes I’d love you over my knee, young lady. Can we cover say the last 6 years worth of birthday spankings? On my wish list!

    I like your videos and this blog , too.

    Dozens more great birthdays, and keep writing. You are very entertaining. Never sure what your next topic will be, but all are home runs.


  4. Dave — oh, I forgot about the funny list! That was a riot. I’m so honored that you make these toons for me — much love to you! ♥

    Jenny — thank you. It’s a deliberate play on words, because ComplEAT goes with BEATles.

    Bob — thank you so much! Oy… dozens more birthdays?? Yeah, I’m thinking that’s a no. But I will enjoy the ones I have.


  5. A belated happy birthday to you, Erica. What a gift haul! You are much loved by many.

    I’ve never seen Yellow Submarine, so I’ll hunt it down on YouTube.



  6. Paddle Daddy on said:

    Damn the 2k miles !

    Paddle Daddy


  7. Buck Rawlins on said:

    I’m officially adding “chesticular enhancements” to my personal lexicon! And that image of you draped over the pillow is a definite keeper. Happy belated anniversary and birthday, Erica.


  8. Hermione — you’ll like it, I think. I guess a lot of people who watched it originally were tripping on acid, but they did that with Fantasia too.

    PD — yeah, that distance thing gets in the way.

    Bob/Buck — thought I recognized that avatar! Thanks. ♥


  9. 0thistle0 on said:

    Hi there!

    I have been off of Fetlife since Steven died, just haven’t had the heart for it. It will be 2 years in November. 2 years? Wtf.

    It was fucking yesterday.

    I was recently considering going back, perhaps I’ll be avoiding it now. Sorry to hear though, regardless, I’m sure there are people I love on both sides, as usual.

    I don’t know about you, but I find myself with a much shorter temper and increased anger at the pandemic, at my situation, at life in general.

    I think what is worse is that I am used to always doing something, always moving, always being busy….and now I don’t have that, I find it hard to get motivated to do any damn thing, yet I’m bored out of my mind. Just….ugh.

    But this too shall pass, it always does.

    So happy anniversary (give John a big hug from me please!) and happy birthday….or congratulations, rather. We have survived all the shit that the world has thrown at us for a long time, and I consider that a victory in and of itself.

    I am glad you are also getting some play time, I haven’t had much of a heart for that either.

    Anyways, love to you both!



    • Hey Tash — jeeez. Two years already? (sigh) Yeah… things at Fet are not well with our community. But I left for a completely different reason… avoidance of an individual who triggers me badly.

      I do struggle with all the BS. It seems that life should be more than just something to survive. But I try to find the joys in what I have. Some days it works. Others it doesn’t. And I hope you know that you are not alone in all that you’re feeling.

      I will definitely pass on your hug to John, and hugs and love back to you from both of us. ♥

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