Erica Scott: Life, Love and Spanking

Ruminations, opinionated observations, darkly humorous blathering and the occasional rant from an outspoken spanko and unapologetic attention wh–, um, hog.

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Some things never change

No matter how many years you spend in TTWD, no matter how many experiences you have, how many things you try, how carefully you hone your own personal interpretation of your chosen kink to where it is fulfilling and joyous… there’s always going to be some nitwit out there telling you you’re doing it wrong.

A few years ago when I was playing regularly with He-Who-Is-No-Longer-In-The-Picture, we used to shoot a lot of goofy videos of our play, some of which I posted on Spanking Tube. One especially popular one was when I’d written a spanking parody of the Beatles song “If I Fell,” and he made me sing it on video — while being spanked.

I still get occasional comments on that one, positive ones saying that it was funny and entertaining. And then yesterday I got this — verbatim, poor grammar and missing punctuation intact:

A spanking not supposed to be fun its supposed to make her correct her bad behavior

Oh, yeah? Says you, illiterate one. Although you’re probably right in one respect: I doubt that spanking or any other kind of kink play is fun when you’re involved.

Who the hell are you, or anyone else, to say what spanking is “supposed” to be? Who are you to deny the unbridled joy that some of us feel indulging in a favorite pastime and fulfilling our desires? Spanking — and all other forms of kink/BDSM/what have you — means myriad things to countless people. There is no “supposed to.” There is no “one true way.” And to impose your rigid (and unsolicited) view and dump on someone else’s pleasure is most unwelcome.

Just a reminder, to anyone out there reading who is new to all this: Don’t let others tell you how you’re supposed to do this thing. Discover for yourself, through trial and error, through following your instincts, what works for you. If it’s discipline, great. If it’s for fun, that’s also great. If it’s a complex mix of the two, have at it. What pushes your buttons and brings you floaty joy, as long as it involves consenting adults, is what it’s supposed to be.

Tell you what, stupid stranger. I’ll go on doing my thing the way I like doing it; if that’s “bad behavior,” oh, well. Report me to the kink police, why don’t you. Or better yet, why don’t you work on correcting your bad grammar and mind your own fucking business, hmmm?

We now return you to your regularly scheduled Monday. Today, it is cold, dark and rainy outside. I have my heater running, warm clothes on, a full fridge, classical music serenely playing in the background, and plenty of work to keep me busy. I don’t have to go anywhere; I can work out in the apartment gym if I want to. I am safe and insulated and at peace in my little bubble.

I know the rain will end, outside life will encroach, and I will need to leave my bubble and re-enter a world that feels ugly and unkind to me. But for this moment, I wish I could stay in here forever.

First post of 2016!

Happy New Year, everyone. I hope y’all had a safe and fun New Year’s Eve. John and I had a quiet one at his house, with wonderful food and champagne, to celebrate his biopsy being negative. The new year started on a positive and joyous note, and I hope that’s a sign of things to come.

Meanwhile, I am so over root canals and stomach bugs and cancer scares and health issues and mean people, and I’m ready for some fun! Steve will be coming over tomorrow (we had to switch to Wednesday), so I am looking forward to that. We have a party in Vegas at the end of February and I’m starting to get very excited about that.

But meanwhile, for those who have missed my occasional posts of videos with Steve (still can’t figure out how to post them on WordPress, and I really don’t like putting them on YouTube), I just put one up on Spanking Tube. Of course, I subject myself to the wankers and haters there, but oh well. Hopefully some of you will like it! Steve had seen something I’d written about Friday the 13th and he was trying to convince me that the number 13 can be a good thing. It’s nearly 10 minutes long, and Steve shows off his prowess with rapid-fire implement use. When you watch, I think you’ll be able to tell that I rather liked it. 😀

To watch, just click here.

El Nino has begun here; lots of rain, and much more to come! Hopefully lots more spanking to come as well — stay tuned.

Not my usual Monday post

A few friends have commented/written to me that my Monday night session with ST will do me a great deal of good this week, help me release some stress. I agree. However, poor ST has his own stress; his car is in the shop and he can’t get here. So no session for us tonight.

I did, however, have a catharsis of sorts on Saturday afternoon. The FetLife BS on Friday, coupled with what happened on this blog on Saturday while I was offline (the latter has been deleted and will not be discussed any further), sent me into spectacular Erica-esque meltdown mode.

John, bless his heart, did all the right things. Asked very few questions. Took me into the bedroom, closed the blinds and lay on the bed with me, pulling the comforter over us both. Reached across me to snatch several tissues from the box on the nightstand, grabbing more as I saturated the ones I had.

I felt ridiculous, telling him what was going on. I said he must think I’m an idiot, overreacting like this to online stuff; that I probably needed to get more of a life. He replied that my distress was real and it didn’t matter what the reason was. I love him for that. Sometimes, when you’re upset, you do NOT need to hear how others really have it bad and you need to get a grip. It doesn’t help.

Finally, I settled down and slept. Order was restored. But, as with an alcohol bender, emotional excess ravages the body. Today, I find myself pale, puffy-eyed and sluggish, with a mildly queasy stomach. Perhaps it’s just as well that I won’t be playing. As much as I will miss ST, I don’t think I’d be a fun playmate this evening.

However, since it’s Monday, I feel somewhat beholden to post something entertaining. So I will call your attention to a few new sampler clips on Spanking Tube.

I mentioned a while back that “Tubaman” Paul had opened his clips4sale “Spanking 101” store. Last week, he put up two 5 1/2-minute samplers of some of the clips. You can get a nice idea of the variety of material he has from these samplers and I am hoping they will pique people’s curiosity.

Here is Sampler #1:

And here is Sampler #2:

In #1, I turn up twice, and in #2, three times. Can you spot me? 🙂

Also, in the Spanking Court clip collection, there’s a new sampler, nearly 3 minutes long, of various spanking snippets. I’m in this one as well, for about 3-4 seconds, at 1:19.

And finally, because it’s not really a Monday without a “happy Erica” photo, here’s an oldie:

Some of you may remember this one: it’s from my first session ever with ST (who was New Guy back then), nearly a year-and-a-half ago, right after my birthday.

I intend to feel like that again soon. Next Monday will return to regularly scheduled perversity, I promise.

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