Off topic: where I stand
I am just going to leave this here. It’s been posted many times on Facebook and I think it speaks well for those of us who are feeling impassioned and angry over what’s going down right now. Yeah, I’d rather talk about fun butt stuff. But this is too damned important… and as a woman, I cannot keep quiet about it.
I am glad my mother is not here to see this giant backward leap. 😦 When gun owners have more rights than women, there is something horribly fucking wrong. Our Supreme Court is packed with conservative judges that the Orange Menace picked, hoping for this to happen. And it makes me sick. I am grateful I came of age in a time of choice. My heart breaks for the young women in this country.
Anyway, here goes — again, not my writing.
I’m not pro-murdering babies. [Erica’s note: And they aren’t freaking babies yet, goddammit, they are clumps of non-viable cells.]
I’m pro-Becky who found out at her 20-week anatomy scan that the infant she had been so excited to bring into this world had developed without life sustaining organs.
I’m pro-Susan who was sexually assaulted on her way home from work, only to come to the horrific realization that her assailant planted his seed in her when she got a positive pregnancy test result a month later.
I’m pro-Theresa who hemorrhaged due to a placental abruption, causing her parents, spouse, and children to have to make the impossible decision on whether to save her or her unborn child.
I’m pro-little Cathy who had her innocence ripped away from her by someone she should have been able to trust and her 11-year-old body isn’t mature enough to bear the consequence of that betrayal.
I’m pro-Melissa who’s working two jobs just to make ends meet and has to choose between bringing another child into poverty or feeding the children she already has because her spouse walked out on her.
I’m pro-Brittany who realizes that she is in no way financially, emotionally, or physically able to raise a child.
I’m pro-Emily who went through IVF, ending up with six viable implanted eggs requiring selective reduction to ensure the safety of her and a safe number of fetuses.
I’m pro-Jessica who is finally getting the strength to get away from her physically abusive spouse only to find out that she is carrying the monster’s child.
I’m pro-Vanessa who went into her confirmation appointment after years of trying to conceive only to hear silence where there should be a heartbeat.
I’m pro-Lindsay who lost her virginity in her sophomore year with a broken condom and now has to choose whether to be a teenage mom or just a teenager.
I’m pro-Courtney who just found out she’s already 13 weeks along, but the egg never made it out of her fallopian tube so either she terminates the pregnancy or risks dying from internal bleeding.
You can argue and say that I’m pro-choice all you want, but the truth is:
You don’t get to pick and choose which scenarios should be accepted. It’s not about which stories you don’t agree with. It’s about fighting for the women in the stories that you do agree with and the choice that was made.
Women’s rights are meant to protect all women, regardless of their situation.
Overturning Roe does not stop abortions, it stops safe abortions.
Abortion is healthcare.